Week 12

Getting closer to the end. Pretty tough, especially my team. We had our last practice this week and realized it was the end. It was a ride and we got the team some major funding to be a real football team, but the Americans are gone by Christmas. Kind of cool to be part of the beginning and can’t wait to see how it grows. I’ll miss these guys.

Went to a charity dinner in another part of England as part of their Christmas meal. Nice to be invited and to experience a little bit of an English Christmas. Brought back old memories of home and the divide I have of staying or going. I know it is nearly time to go home, but you can’t change things up that much, as schedules must be met and deadlines crunched.

I am hopeful I made an impact on the people I met here and before they go, I hope they appreciate who I was. I know they made an impact in my life.

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Our team, or most of it anyways. A heck of a year, especially since they had come from mostly nothing. So much was accomplished and I am proud of the way they are on the way.

The charity dinner gathering. A good bunch of people and made me feel very welcome.

Week 11

Had a thrilling experience in London. Got to stay with a couple people I met in Poland, who happened to be financial interns in the city. The showed around some great sights and I got to experience both the grandeur and the less known spots as well. My last big trip I think, but I am glad I did it, though it was a bit expensive.

My mother has always wanted to come here and shop, so I brought a fair amount of pounds, and bought her a pair of ‘cheap’ boots from Harrod’s. Only cost me about $200. No big deal, right? Hopefully, it will be a nice present under the tree for Christmas.

I am sort of wishing to come home, but I know I’ll miss what I have here. While I am not homesick, I just realize the time is right to go, but it will not make it an easy leave. My football team is almost done for the year and it is beginning to dawn on all of us it is time. Still have some time.

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The top photo is of me crossing Abbey Road, made famous by the Beatles. That was interesting dodging the traffic.

Horse Guard’s Parade. Other than the actual security staff for the Queen, these guys are the big and formal guns that protect the Queen. This is also where members of government might stroll in the back to converse over the day’s events.

I like that picture of Churchill at the Imperial War Museum’s Churchill War Room. This is where he conducted his operations during WWII. Nice to see the Brits aren’t only calling us cowboys.

Week 10

Had a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner here at the university. Met some of the international students I had never met personally before, even some U.S. students. It was a great transition from America, though it still was not quite the same. When you don’t have your ‘home’ or your family, it does take away some of the luster. All in all though, a nice little event.

Busy getting assignments done, as the international students need to get them in earlier than the UK students. Nice we don’t have to do them over Christmas break though. Preparing for some more traveling and some Christmas shopping. Hopefully will go to London soon.

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Photo on the left is the Titanic museum in Belfast. Forgot to put that up. Only a year old, but great insight into all about or surrounding the Titanic.

Photo on the left is Edge Hill. Puts many campuses in America in a different light, as this one speaks of a more formal and grand entrance. Dominates the campus.

My Last Night in Aix-en-Provence

As I sit here writing the last blog, I can’t help but feel sad. Tomorrow I leave France after almost four months of the best experience I have ever had in my life. I have met so many amazing people and have had so many life changing experiences that I can’t even truly express how grateful I am that I have been able to go on this trip. I’m so grateful to my host mom for welcoming me into her family so openly and going far past what is expected of a “host mom”. I don’t see her as my “host mom” but as my French mom. She has been there with me for every bad day and okay day and always waiting up for me when I return from a weekend trip. She has been such a vital person in my life here in France.

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I will also miss my host brother Paul who has openly accepted me. Though he is nicknamed Paul the Terrible, he really does have one of the biggest hearts of anyone I know. I know that I will forever cherish the colorings he has made me and the two Christmas cards. He has been just like a little brother to me. And I hope he is old enough to remember who I am. He has been a constant source of joy for me as I have never had a younger sibling. Though he can sometimes have a lot of energy, he has reminded me that every day is a day to cherish and make the best of.

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I will not miss the showers here, or the constant need to preserve water or electricity. I have a new awareness of just how much of this we use and how we feel that it will be a resource that will last forever though it will not.

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When I first came here I worried about my fluency level with French and fear that I wouldn’t assimilate into the culture. I couldn’t have been more wrong. I assimilated completely into my family and with their help have grown far more confident in speaking. I no longer have the fear of saying something incorrectly and ca switch between the languages much faster than I used to. My only fear now is that my English has taken a turn for the worst because of constantly speaking and writing in French.

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I think that Franc is very similar to what I thought it would be. Even though I was never able to find Escargot and the French do not eat crazy and bizarre foods like I thought, there are occasions where I had to give an odd glance at what I was going to be eating. I also was worried about being mugged and though I was attemptedly pick pocketed I was smart in traveling and was always aware of stranger’s access to my personal items.

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I am excited to go home as well. I know I will miss my french friends that I have made here and am a bit worried about keeping in contact with them, but with all the technology that we have now days, I think it will not be too difficult. I also worry about keeping in touch with my French Family. I really want to keep them involved in my life. I am excited to see my friends and family when I get home and to be able to share some of my experience with them. I worry about re-assimilating into life at home, but it will be better knowing that they are right there to support me.

Week 15 – Farewell Barcelona

Well, the time to leave Barcelona has come and gone (Sorry about my last post being late, again). This week was really stressful and emotional for me. Bank account was going down, finals this week, and having to say good by to all my friends and leaving Barcelona. I didn’t get a chance to explore Barcelona much this week, I really had to focus on my studies to make sure I did well in all of my classes. I was surprised to find that my classes and finals were more intense here than at home (in my opinion at least).

After finals were finished we had a farewell dinner with our whole program and we all ate typical spanish food one last time and talked about our past semester here and how fast it went by. Our program director also made a video for us with all of our excursions and it made me realize how many amazing trips we all took together, and how close we’ve all gotten. Leaving this amazing group of people was one of the hardest and emotional things i’ve ever had to do. We became our own little family.

Another guy in the program actually made his on video of all of us from his point of view in Barcelona and I just wanted to watch it over and over again! I can’t believe its over. I am happy to be home, but I will always cherish my time in Barcelona and the amazing people I met during my time there. I didn’t realize how much my time here had changed me. It opened my eyes to other cultures, made me more patient, more open to taking risks, and asking for help. It’s helped shape me to be a better student, and a better person.

La Fete des Lumieres in Lyon, France

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Recently, I was lucky enough to go to the Fete des Lumieres in Lyon, France. I had learned a bit abot it three years ago and it was one of the reasons that I decided to come study abroad in the winter, so that I would be able to attend. What I didn’t know is that it is the third largest festival in the world! The first two being Rio Carnival and Oktoberfest. It was estimated that last year over 4 million people came for the four day festival. And judging from how many people I saw, I would believe it!

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The festival is a devotion to the Virgin Mary who in 1643 when the village was struck by the plague, supposedly saved the entire city from ruin. The original date of the festival is December the 8th and that tends to be the peak point of the festival, but now it is a four day event starting on the sixth and ending on the ninth. I really enjoyed it because what they do is cast light onto their most important buildings and create shows using the lights.

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Every year ne of the major squares called the Place des Terreaux, does a different themed light show. This year was the Little Prince which is a very popular French children’s story! I have read it many times and really enjoy it so I was excited to see it in show form! It was a bit different than I expected but it was an absolutely gorgeous show! The abilities that they can do with projections and light amazes me!

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I also really liked walking around the city at night because of how elaborate the shops and roads become filled with Christmas lights and candles. It is a Lyonnais tradition that every house put out candles or lights in their windows and then leaves to walk around the city. It was absolutely gorgeous but there were a lot of people and the center of Lyon has very tiny streets!

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If you go to this festival make sure you book your hotel about a year in advance so as to be in the city limits. At night because of there being so many people, they shut down the city and make it impossible for cars to get in and out, so you have to take the trains to get out of the city. It was really an amazing trip and I wish that we had been there for longer. I can’t wait to go back again someday!

HOME!!!

The arrival back into the U.S was a completely different experience! This time, I had my mom and my boyfriend waiting for me with a PB and J sandwich, apples, and some chips! I had put in this request weeks ago! I was so excited to be home to see my family! No more late night talks on Skype, no more missed emails, and no more asking to borrow someones international phone! I could actually talk to these people and touch them! When I finally made it through customs, my family was no where to be seen! This was their first time picking someone up from an international flight, so they were waiting close to the gate where the plane actually arrived. When I saw them, I ran to give them each a hug and a kiss! I finally felt a sense of being home! I really appreciate getting to talk to my family members, touch them, and having that ability to get in the car and go and visit them whenever I want!

What I miss the most about China… Everything but the frog! I especially miss the friends that I had made! Staying up late and having girls night, laughing, and playing games! Learning about England from our new friends! Paul, who I really bonded with taught us about pressure points on our bodies to help us remember things, get rid of headaches, and to help with foot pains (we had lots of those)! I also miss all the adventures we had! We would wake up and would hit the ground running! We wouldn’t stop until it was time for our heads to hit the pillow! With this, we got to see so much and do so much! I don’t regret a single thing we did while we were there!

If the opportunity ever arises again, I will jump on it so fast! I had so much fun learning new things, seeing so many sights that I never thought I would, and creating memories that will last forever!

Going Home

I have mixed feelings about going home. I’m ready to head home to see my family and friends again, but I’m not ready to leave the amazing group I’ve been apart of! We have all become so close in such a short time! It’s going to be sad to leave these wonderful people!

I took the train a day earlier than the rest of the group. I was all alone and was scared to see who I was going to be sharing a room with and were things going to okay? How was I going to know when to get off the train and what am I going to do when someone asks me a question? I was slowly freaking out! I got on the train with no problem. got all comfortable in my bed, and was ready for a 18 hour long train ride of silence. Boy was I wrong! A couple got into the same car as me, got all settled and started talking to each other in Chineses. I knew this was going to a long trip.

What started out as a quiet train ride, turned into a loud and adventurous one! It turned out that the woman from the couple knew how to speak English! She offered me food– have you ever peeled a Pomegranate?, helped me buy dinner, and even let me join in and play a game that resembled Monopoly! Even though I had never met these people in my life, they were so helpful and wanted to please me at any moment, even though I felt like I should have been the one to please them! Once we got back in Beijing, we exchanged emails and I told her to find me on Facebook!

Sara was waiting for me at the train station platform and I have never been so excited to see someone I barely even knew! I invited her out for lunch before I had to say my final goodbye. I knew it was going to be hard to see her leave;  when you put so much trust and have a sense of security with a person, it makes it hard to see them leave. Over lunch we shared pictures of our animals and talked about each others culture. She then promised that she would come and visit us in America within the next year or so! She has always wanted to visit, but never has had the time to, even with her family living in Canada! It was then time to say goodbye… she helped me buy some snacks for dinner, got the bus to the airport situated, and then we said goodbye.

After Sara left, I felt so alone. I had no one to talk to, no place to go, and was left there to cry. So that’s what I did! All these emotions came fluttering in from nowhere! The stress of getting to China, being tired from all the activities had finally caught up with me, I was alone for the first time on this trip, and I was ready to leave, but I also felt like I wanted more. So, I cried. I cried a lot! It was pathetic, but I was going to miss this culture that I had grown to love in just three short weeks!

I’m really going to miss the friends that I have made who helped enrich my cultural experience! Like Victor, Liming, Brian, and Michael! They helped us get everywhere and helped us get out of a few sticky situations. I can’t express how grateful for all these men who made me appreciate their culture! Thank you guys for everything you did for us!

I’m looking forward to waking up and getting on the plane to go home, but I just don’t think I’m ready to leave. I just want to say thank you to those who made the trip so enjoyable! I never could have had this experience without everyone that was apart of this trip, so thank you!

Almost all of our group!

Almost all of our group!

Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM)

Before leaving for China I knew a little bit about TCM, but that was only because I had asked Patty about it. I was curious about the use of origins and what they actually meant. I was also a little hesitant– sticking needles into a person will provide relief? How is that even possible? I just had to see it before I could believe it!

TCM Hospital

TCM Hospital

My suspicions disintegrated once I had TCM done on me! When Teri and Simon were placing needles in my back and then they twisted them– my world was twisted! The needles Simon had placed earlier in my arm started to twitch from the energy that was moving! It was crazy! I then became a believer, but man my back was sore after the needles came out!

Needles in my back!

Needles in my back!

Even before I became a human push-pin, I had the most amazing experience I’ve had thus far in my life! While in a nearby village, the TCM students were practicing and offering up the skills they have learned. This was composed of one TCM doctor prescribing herbs for teas while the students practiced acupuncture, cupping, and moxibustion. Sitting next to the doctor, TCM students were practicing taking blood pressure. One of the students then asked us Americans if any of us knew how to take blood pressure… (this is my favorite part)… that is when I opened up my mouth to say, “I do!” I had taken a Certified Nursing Assistant class back in high school and that’s where I learned how to take blood pressure. Once they found out, I was strapped in with a stethoscope and a blood pressure cuff and I hit the ground running!

Taking Blood Pressure

Taking Blood Pressure

Getting to help people who have no access to health care and not knowing the last time they received care; you could see how excited they were and that someone was taking care of them. The experience was so moving– I had an overwhelming sense of joy and I couldn’t get over the fact at how privileged we are as Americans with health care. I loved helping provide people with such small care!

 

“It Takes A Great Man (or Woman!), To Climb A Great Wall”

I’ve been to a lot of historical places in America, went to Anne Franks house while I was in Amsterdam, visited Nurnberg while in Germany, and I went to Paris, but you can’t compare them to how massive the Great Wall really is! The wall stretches on for miles and miles! When the rest of the group was flying into China they could see the Wall from the plane! How amazing is that? You can even see it from SPACE!! But the most amazing thing is getting to walk, okay so more like climb stairs that are about a foot tall, on this breathtaking wall!

So many people walking the wall!

So many people walking the wall!

A little background about The Wall; it is the most recognizable symbol of China due to it’s long and vivid history. The Wall was constructed by  Emperor Qin Shi Huang in the third century B.C as hopeful deterrent from barbarians getting into the Chinese Empire. The most well know section of the Great Wall was built in the 14th through the 17th centuries. Even though the Great Wall never effectively prevented invaders from entering China, it became a psychological barrier for those outside of Chinese civilization, and today, it remains as the most powerful symbol of the country’s strength.

Group photo before we start the climb!

Group photo before we start the climb!

When we reached the third and final tier of The Wall; through a small little peep hole, we could see sections of The Old Wall. That itself was just unreal! That was a section that could have been thousands or millions of years old! It was then time to walk back down to the beginning of The Wall. Courtney and I saw a group of men lining up to have their pictures taken in front of a stone statue with writing etched into it. We then asked Pluto what it meant and instantly got in line! Pluto told us that it translated to, “It takes a great man to climb a great wall”. We figured that we had just climbed this amazing monument, why couldn’t we have our picture taken with this statue?!

It Takes A Great Man To Climb A Great Wall!

It Takes A Great Man To Climb A Great Wall!

Showing how steep the wall is!

Showing how steep the wall is!