Tomte

I love gnomes. For my birthday a couple years ago, my mom got me gnome salt and pepper shakers, a string of lights with gnome coverings, a gnome book… you get the idea. My keychain is a rubber duck with a gnome hat and beard. Anyways, Sweden has a history of gnomes! Only they’re called tomte (tome-tay, more or less). And from what I’ve gleaned, they were thought to protect the farmhouses and were the spirit of the first owner of the house, often the ancestor of the current owner. They are supposedly grumpy little fellows who often demanded some kind of food or treat so they would keep the house safe. Whatever the case may be, they soon became a Christmas icon as well – santa is known as Jultomten. Jul being Christmas of course…. Yule…. Jul. It’s not a stretch. So there’s a lot of cute little gnome-like creatures in shop windows all over town! They are usually made of wool, but I have seen clay and ceramic ones as well. I love it!

I found these guys at a Christmas market! The tomte is the little one with the red cap. The other is a horse. Obviously. They are both handcrafted!

I found these guys at a Christmas market! The tomte is the little one with the red cap. The other is a horse. Obviously. They are both handcrafted!

xxx Maren

Winter in Sweden

Sweden looks like a scene from Narnia most days. It really is a beautiful place. The sun is now setting at 3pm and is pitch black within the hour. Now that the snow has fallen though, it seems lighter out. And the Swedes of course have figured out how to cope with the darkness (especially up North where there’s no sun in some places, and even midnight sun). There are candles, or electric candles) in almost every single window, or a lamp, or my personal favourite – paper stars. I love the stars. So even when it’s dark in Sweden, it never seems dead. And even the city center is decorated and there are twinkle lights above the streets. My bike ride to campus is sometimes difficult with the snow when it builds up and I get stick in other peoples’ tracks, but the lakes are frozen and snow has built up on them and so everything is white.  And so eerily quiet. I can even see the snow crystals individual when they land on my jacket, because they don’t melt immediately as they usually do in Oregon. I thought I would maybe be sick of the snow by now, but every time it snows I will still run to the window and sit and watch the snow fall for a while. I also think that it makes the cold a little more bearable – it’s a dry cold rather than the wet and cold we get in Oregon. This snow stays dryer than the Oregon snow I’ve experienced.

Around the lakes after the first snowfall.

Around the lakes after the first snowfall.

xxx Maren

Homesickness

Sorry guys, time for my post on homesickness.

When I left, I thought I would have more time to say goodbye to my mom. But then the line at security went a lot faster than either of us expected and soon I was sitting by myself at my departure gate. This was a familiar feeling. I often travel  by myself for dance competitions. I’d flown to Ireland twice by myself, but something was different this time – as it should have been! My mom is one of my closest friends and definitely my closest family member and she has been the person I miss the most while I am here. But thanks to the magic of Skype and other internet tools, I still get to talk to her almost everyday. I remember thinking, as I sat at the gate, that this was going to be the hardest year of my life. But I just wasn’t sure what I was about to experience.

Sometimes I do get little pangs of homesickness. Mostly for dance though. I call this (oh-so-cleverly) dancesickness. Dance was/is a huge part of my life. This is my first time in 5 years without my dance team. Seeing all the pictures of my friends competing and winning medals and trophies makes me wish I was still there experiencing all of that. I think this is the hardest for me – because I can’t skype dance. Sure, I can still dance here, and that’s great. But it won’t compare to the time spent in the studio with my dance family and my coach yelling (occasionally praising) us. This is what I miss most about home. I’m learning to get through it though, and it only hits me every once in a while. Especially now that regionals are over and so there will be less competitions. I don’t miss it any less now, but I have enough schoolwork to keep me busy and my wonderful friends who will always find something for us to do, whether it’s movie night or going swimming in the freezing cold lake! Or standing on the bank, observing… which I am REALLY good at 🙂

Dance team picture

Dance team picture

In conclusion, I guess I’m saying that the homesickness I once assumed would be overwhelming is very, very manageable. In fact, I feel more at home in Sweden than I do in Monmouth. I’m sad that I will have to return to Monmouth and I already cannot wait to go back to Vaxjo. Even right now, while I am in Ireland I miss Sweden. I’ve only been gone 7 days. Oh boy. If I’ve learned anything though, it’s that I can get through it. And there’s always an option to get a masters degree here!

xxx Maren

Moose and Glass

Mr. Moose Moose again These little (or should I say big?) guys I saw at a moose park I visited with many other exchange students on a trip organised through my university. We were so close I could have petted one, but something about that didn’t sit right in my mind, so I kept my hands to myself. Moose are a symbol of Sweden and apparently also cause a good deal of car accidents because they like to run across the road and people like to drive really fast. There was a little scene set up inside the moose park gift shop that featured a real stuffed moose that had been hit by a car. It had done some damage to the car! So be careful while driving your cars here in Sweden!

On this trip, we also got the chance to see some real glass blowing! Glass blowing is a tradition in this part of Sweden and we were able to see the best glass blowers in the area do their work, right in front of us! Super neat. We were also able to see a museum of many of the older pieces that the artists had made.

Lost in translation moment: I was speaking to my French friend at the glass museum and I asked what he thought of all of it (in English) and he told me that he thought it was very cool, but he was still a little confused. I then of course asked why he was confused and he told me that he thought we were going to visit an ice museum (I don’t really know what that means, but it’s not the point anyway). He had been confused because the word glass (not the same spelling, obviously) in French means ice, ore ice cream. So he had been very excited the whole day to see ice sculptures, and then when we arrived he found out what glass really meant in English.

Watching professional glass blowers.

Watching professional glass blowers.

In the glass museum

In the glass museum

xxx Maren

Ireland for Christmas!

I just saw my mom and my brother for the first time since leaving the States. We decided Ireland would be a great place to come for Christmas since they had never been, and I love it here (I have been Irish dancing all my life and was just here for the World Championships in April). This is the longest and furthest I have been away from home in my life, referring to living in Sweden of course. Admittedly, I thought I would have a harder time leaving than I did, but maybe I’ll write about homesickness in another blog. Seeing my family here in Europe was a little surreal, considering I have never been here with them before, but I loved it! And Ireland is so festive at Christmas time – everything is decorated, absolutely everything. Since it is Ireland at Christmas time though, all the stores and shops have been closed and we spent all of Christmas day in the hotel. But never fear! My mom and I watched several cheesy romantic comedies, including PS I Love You which is partly set in Ireland! (We saw the hills the characters meet in on our tour the other day!) We spent the remainder of our time walking around Dublin, sight seeing. I dragged my brother and my mom into the National Archaeological Museum which I enjoy very much every time I am here (and admission is free!). It was really great getting to see my mom and brother, but I think it’s finally hitting me that I won’t see them for another 6 months as I sit here writing this.

Luckily for my sanity, I’m currently in my hostel (the Avalon House, which I recommend if any of you will be travelling in Dublin) and waiting for my friend Natalie to arrive. She will spend next semester in Cork and so I am meeting up with her while I am still here.  We spent all summer working side by side, so I am very excited to see her. We are planning to go on a couple day tours, including one to Connemara, and of course just explore Dublin city… Maybe I’ll make her explore the museum too 🙂

I can already tell I have changed since being abroad. I now feel overwhelmed by the crowds here in Dublin – the mass of people you just don’t find in my small town in Sweden. I find myself missing trying to decode the Swedish on the back of everything I buy. I now say the typical Swedish, hejhej (pronounced: hey hey) as a greeting rather then hello or what have you. I look outside and hope for snow! The first few days I was here there was even sunlight, which is something I have not seen in a long while due to the cloud covering and darkness that lingers over Sweden. I can’t lie, my eyes hurt a little bit the first time I was wandering around here, but they got used to it after a little bit. I’m glad to have a break from the snow, but I’ll be happy to return to my little winter wonderland.

xxx Maren

I love Sweden.

I have been too busy living my life over here, I completely forgot I need to write my blog! I think the title sums up my feelings for my life over here pretty well though. But where to go from here? There is so much and so little to tell!

I guess I’ll start with my classes, since that’s the most important. I love the school system over here! Seriously though. Love. I don’t care if that makes me sound like the biggest nerd in the world. I have about 6-9 hours of class time a week and the rest of the time to do my reading and assignments. We don’t have busy work here like they do back in the States (at least that’s how it has been in all of my classes at WOU) and all the papers we write are pertinent to our class work and focus on analyzing current conflicts in our world. And instead of normal written exams, I am graded based on my final papers and my participation in a discussion group with the teacher.

The weather here is always interesting. The sun sets around 4pm and it’s pitch black outside by 4:30. Sometimes it’s very sunny, other times it’s foggy and overcast like it was today. It snowed very briefly one day about a month ago and it got my hopes up, but we haven’t had anymore since then. When there is sun though, I like to take advantage of it as much as possible by taking hikes or riding my bike into the town center.

My friends here have quickly become like family. I live in a flat with 15 other people. I have my own room and bathroom, but I share the kitchen and living room. On my floor there are people from many different countries all over the world, and we spend a lot of time together. This past Friday we decorated the hall for Christmas (since most of us won’t be here for the actual day, we’re starting early!) and played card games until late. Then a  few of us stayed up to watch Home Alone. I’ll post some pictures of the decorations later! Tonight, and every Sunday, we have hall dinner where someone from the floor cooks for the rest of us. Usually it is something from their home country, but not always. Last week myself and the other American on my floor, Valerie, made tacos for everyone; this week, our German friend will be making us dinner and our English friend will make dessert! Not only is it a fun way to experience different cultures, it is also pretty inexpensive which is nice for all of us students here because Sweden is not the cheapest country to live in!

I will post more specific posts soon about various events I have been to over the past two months!

Classes have started!

I wasn’t sure what to expect when I went to my introductory class; it was in an old farm building on the outskirts of campus, next to the stables (and yes, there were horses). As I climbed up the stairs with my friend from Korea who is in the same programme, I felt like I was back in Ireland among the whitewashed stone houses. The room we were in was drafty and spacious, I could barely hear what my four professors were saying. From what I understood, this was going to be a very different academic system than any I had experienced before. And indeed is has been an experience!

My schedule changes every week. I only have one course for a five week span of time. I don’t necessarily have class at the same time or same place everyday. Sometimes I only go to class twice a week, other times I have class 4 days a week. Some classes are 1 hour, others are 4. Some classes are lectures, others are discussion oriented. But one thing is for sure: the professor will always be 15 minutes late. Apparently this is completely normal too. The first day of lecture, my Canadian friend and I were grumbling about how the teacher was late and the Swedish guy next to us explained that in Sweden, that is the custom – it is referred to as “the academic fifteen”. Students are expected to be on time for class, but the teacher has 15 minutes to wander in to class before we can start to complain. I am growing accustomed to this though, and our 15 minute coffee breaks after every hour of class are nice as well. It feels like I’m never in class, but when I am, I feel like I am learning in a much more productive way (for my own learning style) than I do in one class back in the states. Today we went through several hundred years of European political history in two hours! And my teachers have been to and have worked in developing communities around the world; this was their life’s work before they became teachers. It is so fascinating to learn from people who have actually lived in these situations and witnessed them first-hand. I also appreciate that the first thing they taught us was that there is no one right way in our field of study. Because it’s true – industrialism has not worked for the majority of the world as it did for Europe and the US, so how can we expect that to be the only way to develop other nations. And we have also been looking at what it means to be a ‘developed nation’. I am always so interested in everything in class… And I should probably stop now, before I bore you all to death with theoretical development and the political history of Europe 🙂

But today was the first day I realised I was the only American in the class. There are at least 70 people in this programme and I am the only American. And the States aren’t exactly the most well-liked country in the world right now; as I learned today, we have a very small portion of the world’s population, but use at least 50% of the resources. Not that I didn’t know this before, but before I was surrounded by other Americans, guilty of the exact same thing (whether we mean to or not, we all are) and now I am a minority. I felt so incredibly guilty for the rest of class and hoped he wouldn’t call out any Americans in class to discuss this and I would be the only one to answer.

Despite that strange feeling, I thoroughly enjoyed class and cannot wait for tomorrow, although it is another 3 hour lecture. I’m sure my two coffee breaks will tide me over though!

-Maren

The first week

Sweden is amazing. That’s all there is to it. It is so beautiful here and the people are so friendly. I live in a residence hall with mostly other exchange students. There are people here from all over the world (mostly Europe), and it is so cool to learn about their cultures as well as find out there ideas about the US culture.

In Vaxjo, where I am living, everyone bikes. Whether they are 7 or 70, dressed for biking, or dressed for a night out. It is such a pedestrian and cyclist friendly town, with  bike paths everywhere. My hall is unfortunately located far away from campus, but thankfully I am very close to the centrum (downtown) and the bike ride around the lake is beautiful; even in the morning and my face is freezing. I am so excited to start classes, but these past few days have been near perfect as I have found a good group of friends and we have been cycling everywhere and learning more about our surroundings. Tomorrow we will bike around the entire city, on the outskirts and picnic near one of the many lakes.

My other favourite part of living in Sweden is fika (pronounced: fee-kah). It means coffee, but refers to a time to meet up with your friends and have coffee/tea and some pastry, maybe kanelbullar, which are Swedish cinnamon rolls. And delicious, might I add. It is very similar to British tea time. There are many cafes on campus, so there is always a place for fika!

Sweden has been great so far, but shopping is by far one of the most overwhelming experiences I have had. For one thing, everything is in Swedish. And I do not speak Swedish, although I am catching on! I was trying to find face wash the other day and had a very difficult time trying to find what was face wash, what was scented, non-scented, and all the other things that I am so used to just being able to read on the labels. The other thing is that everyone thinks I look Swedish and therefore start talking to me in Swedish, leaving me very confused and informing them that I do not understand and only speak English. When I was buying my bike, the man helping me was very surprised when I told him I wasn’t Swedish, to which he replied. “not even Finnish?” Nope, sorry. Not even Finnish.

I think I will enjoy this place quite a bit, once I overcome the language boundary. Thank goodness most people can speak English, or I would feel so lost and confused! I am very ready for classes to start though, I cannot wait to see how classes work and what it will be like to be a real Swedish student!

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Kaffe and kanelbullar at my new favourite time of day- fika!

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Walking through campus.

I guess that means I’m leaving soon!

After a summer of living among Douglas Fir trees, deer and a multitude of children, it is finally time for me to travel abroad. Camp is always an amazing experience, not only because of the chance that I have to change my campers’ lives, but also the confidence that I find in myself by the end. If I can clean a soiled sleeping bag at 3 in the morning and handle the night terrors of 8 year old girl then I can do anything! Right? Of course I can!

I can’t lie, I am incredibly nervous. It’s very surreal to think that in less than 24 hours I will be flying to Sweden, where I will stay for the entire year. I also find it strange that my life can fit into one suitcase (although it is the largest suitcase I could find).

Being a political science major, I think I have idealized Sweden perhaps too much. I see Sweden as a haven for equality and socialized medicine. Sweden is a place that, politically speaking, is doing things right; They are by far one of the happiest countries in the world and are very progressive. I can’t wait to see what I learn from my peace and development courses! I am excited to learn about peace in a country that practices what it preaches!

-Maren