Svetlana Goloviznina | Freelancer
It doesn’t matter whether someone is single or is on the asexual or aromantic spectrum and is tired of the Valentine’s Day shenanigans — there is always a way to make a day like Valentine’s Day better.
- Go see a movie
While it can be intimate to go out with a lover and watch a romantic comedy, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with people sitting down and being fully immersed in a movie they’ve been pumped to see. And besides, that allows people to have all the expensive popcorn and drinks to themselves.
- Have a spa day
This is something that can even be done at home. Kick back to some favorite tunes, light up the candles and bring out the bath bombs because this time is self-love time. Doesn’t matter if you’re a full grown man, everyone deserves to smell nice and feel nice.
- Treat yourself
In truth, having a day for oneself can be difficult. People can take the time to honor themselves this Valentine’s Day; it’s something they’ve earned for caring for themselves all this time. Self-care is the best thing one can do for themselves. Buy something sweet, enjoy a hike, try out a hobby because nobody’s around to stop you but you.
And if treating yourself doesn’t work for you then…
- Treat your family
While these days are often planned for lovers, there will always be family and close friends who have your back, so treat them to something nice. It can be as simple as a card, flower or a balloon. Small acts of kindness go a long way.
Contact Svetlana at sgoloviznina19@wou.edu
