
Oct 8 2025 | Belen Ponce Leal | Lifestyle Editor
Moving to a new town or city can be pretty intimidating for anyone. Whether a person enjoys traveling or perhaps is a happy homebody, moving from a house or apartment to a dorm room can be really intimidating. It’s a big change for anyone, especially someone who might not be from the area, to learn to call this place home for the time being. It can also be really difficult to decide what to do with this little space someone is given and expected to call home for at least a year.
I remember the stress of preparing to move across the state to be able to attend Western. I read dozens of online threads from former students giving advice to new ones about what to bring or what to invest in for comfort. Packing was a nightmare, trying to figure out what could stay at home and what should come to the dorms.
After some research and a bit of my own first-hand experience, I have provided a couple of tips for those on campus who are struggling with the “move-in blues.” These range from how to live in the dorm and also get into how to get out of one.
Unpack — If there is any kind of advice that all students of all types will agree on, it would probably be to not procrastinate. As good as it feels to just lie down and doom scroll for hours on end, it can end up causing problems because of how time-consuming it is. Therefore, make sure that all belongings are organized in a way that feels comfortable. Personally, I found that having the freedom to organize in a way that I preferred was a great experience. It was a comfort to know nothing was going to be moved and placed somewhere else. Be sure to clarify with a roommate that what’s on one side of the room should not be touched, unless given permission to do so. That also leads to the next tip:
Roommate Communication — While I missed out on having a roommate during my time in Landers Hall, I did have to interact with others often while living in a shared bathroom and kitchen area. My biggest advice would be to be open and understanding. Explain each other’s preferences, limits and comfort levels. Let each other know what is okay to do and what isn’t. It can be awkward at times, but as long as there is mutual respect between everyone, getting along with each other shouldn’t be too difficult. If there is ever a big conflict that can’t be fixed with words, though, contact a resident assistant for further advice and instruction. Their phone numbers should always be visible somewhere in the building on a poster of sorts.
Bring things from home — Whether it’s simple items like blankets or bedsheets, or more unique personal effects, having things that have some kind of sentimental meaning or are just really comfortable can bring a sense of familiarity to an area that may lack it. Personally, I brought a lot of plushies into my dorm room when moving to Western. They are perfect to cling to during the stressful times of finals week. I also brought my own personal pillow. Not only did it save me the trouble of having to buy a new one, but it is a very comfortable item. I’m the type of person who doesn’t fall asleep easily in new areas, yet the pillow allowed for a night of easy rest. If someone isn’t as big of a plushie enthusiast as I am, other items to consider would be a favorite mug, a scrunchie, sweaters or some fuzzy socks.
Decorating — Decor is a very important part of any home, whether it be a house, apartment or a dorm room. Unless someone is a very committed minimalist, most people enjoy personalizing their space. It allows for creative freedom and can often be one of the first times in life that someone can decorate their room the way they want to. Items for desks could be a small stack of books, figurines, plushies, framed photos or a desk organizer. For walls, it can be a bit trickier, as it’s important to not damage the walls. Command strips are a common resource in dorm rooms, as they do not create holes in the walls, but keep in mind their various weight limits — they can send wall decor crashing to the floor if not careful. With that in mind, someone could hang some lights in the corners of the room, put up photos, posters or flags. It all depends on preference and whatever helps the room fit one’s tastes the most.
Snacks — Something I’ve learned in my time as a student is that stress eating is a real thing. While I don’t recommend overeating as a way to cope with stress, it still isn’t a bad idea to stock up on some snacks to munch on throughout the term. Some of my personal favorites that are sweet are peanut M&M’s, Snickers, Muddy Buddies and Hershey’s chocolate. As far as savory goes, I love lemon-lime hot Cheetos, Lay’s lime chips and Chex Mix.
Don’t stay in the dorm — I made that mistake last year. Staying in the dorm after being done with class, while relaxing, was also incredibly lonely. I strongly encourage anyone who is considering just staying in the dorm in their downtime to find events on campus to attend. Not only is it pretty exciting to see what is going on around Western, it’s a good way to meet new people and form relationships. Most of the time, there are a lot of signs or posters hanging around campus with information about an event. However, there is always the option to go to the website for the university and look at the WOU Calendar. Events of all sorts are visible on that page. There are also many clubs at Western that would love to have new members. For me personally, I found that most of the friends I made here at Western have been from classes. Speak to peers and connect with them, especially if they are in the same major.
No one should have to go through university alone. Make connections with those around and find a place here at Western.
Contact the author at howllifestyle@mail.wou.edu