Written by: Hannah Field | News Editor<\/p>\n
Rylie Cader is many things: a cheerleader, a Disney fan and a hopeless romantic.<\/span><\/p>\n One of those passions \u2014 cheerleading \u2014 began in early elementary school. She signed up for a day camp during second grade \u2014 led by the local high school cheerleaders who would steer Cader toward her future.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Cader is now cheerleading in her second year at Western. This February, the cheerleading team will be attending the annual competition in Anaheim, California, reminding Cader of her second passion \u2014 Disneyland.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cI come from a very big Disney family. And the reason why is because my grandfather \u2014 he passed away when I was ten \u2014 he came from a super poor family. He grew up in poverty. He had to grow up pretty quickly because of that. And he loved Disney because it made him feel like a kid again,\u201d Cader said. \u201cHe always made sure we could go, and because of that, my mom loves Disney.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Cader has been to Disneyland countless times. She knows when ticket prices are high \u2014 and in February, they are \u2014 and what old rides used to stand and where. She believes that Disney is something that changes and evolves with its fans.<\/span><\/p>\n Her grandfather traversed Disneyland in the first year of its opening \u2014 something that inevitably changed the trajectory of Cader\u2019s family line.<\/span><\/p>\n Cader graduated from high school in 2022. That year, her mother wanted to take her to London to celebrate \u2014 but Cader had other plans.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cI actually told her I wanted to go to Disney. She was a little frustrated with me, and there was some drama with why she thought I didn\u2019t want to go to London, and I told her, \u2018My grandfather isn\u2019t here to see me graduate,\u2019\u201d Cader said. \u201c\u2018I want to go to Disney for him.\u2019 As soon as I said that, she totally shut up and understood. So we took Austin on that trip and that\u2019s when he proposed.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Every year since their engagement, they take time in Disneyland to see the Wishing Well, where they honor that one fateful year where Rylie flipped a coin into the depths and turned to find Austin on one knee.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cYou know, in the movies, when there\u2019s like those things where people are shocked or they hear bad news and everything dims down. You can\u2019t really hear. I didn\u2019t even realize that happens in real life \u2014 I didn\u2019t hear what he said, I just saw his mouth moving. I stood there in shock for a minute, just staring at him. And then I screamed almost at the top of my lungs.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n When flipping a coin into the Wishing Well, a person typically makes a wish to themselves, and with Disney magic, it\u2019s supposed to come true.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cSo I closed my eyes, I had [the coin] on my thumb, I was about to flick it in, and I was thinking, I hope Austin proposes to me soon,\u201d<\/span> said Cader. Little did she know he was on one knee behind her \u2014 pulling a Disney-line Ariel ring from his pocket.<\/span><\/p>\n It was something Cader couldn\u2019t have even dreamt of, despite all the time she spent watching Disney romances on the screen.<\/span><\/p>\n Although excited, the couple aren\u2019t marrying until after Cader graduates. They\u2019re set to be engaged for a little over four years, and although happy, Cader hasn\u2019t evaded all criticism for being a \u201cDisney adult\u201d and engaged right out of high school.<\/span><\/p>\n A previous coach from her high school years had mocked Cader for being engaged so young, confusing Cader. \u201cIt was definitely disheartening. I thought she liked me and I was told other stories where she was making fun of me, but I didn\u2019t take it to heart because the coaches I have now are so much better,\u201d Cader said.<\/span><\/p>\n Now, Cader is a valued member of Western\u2019s team, with coaches who desire her presence. In the past, however, Cader felt misplaced. \u201cBeing a cheerleader, I always struggled to feel like I was on the team,\u201d said Cader about a time when her fellow teammates were being bumped up to varsity without her. \u201cIt got in my head and made me feel like I was a bad cheerleader.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Fast forward to 2023, Cader broke down while talking to her mother, expressing feelings of thankfulness for her new team and the respect she was given for the first time.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cMy mom is a big part of cheer for me,\u201d Cader said. \u201cMy mom was in a car crash when pregnant with me \u2014 somebody had run a red light by our church \u2014 and hit her car by the passenger side. Because of the trauma from the crash, she was having contractions, going in and out of labor, but we think that trauma from the contractions is what caused my medical issues.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Cader was born premature and spent time in the NICU. This led to years of doctor\u2019s office visits and lots of time together with her mother, which would eventually culminate in Cader\u2019s profound respect and love for her mother. \u201cMy mom sacrificed so much,\u201d said Cader. \u201cMy mom would make sure we had everything we needed while her shirts and clothes have holes in them. Even when she was struggling to make ends meet, she somehow found a way to pay for cheer.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n As for her love for Disney, she had felt anxiety regarding the topic prior to college, but found that it wasn\u2019t that outstanding that she loved Disney so much. \u201cAfter being in college and meeting all these people, it made me feel better and more confident being a Disney adult,\u201d Cader said, referencing all the other Disney lovers she\u2019s encountered over the years.<\/span><\/p>\n Cader hopes to continue her family tradition of attending Disneyland and stopping at the Wishing Well with her soon-to-be husband, joined by their family.<\/span><\/p>\n Family to Cader is precious. Her brother filmed her proposal \u2014 posting it online but muting her scream of excitement \u2014 and her mother was right there alongside her, the reason Cader was a hopeless romantic in the first place \u2014 although less hopeless now.<\/span><\/p>\n With recent health scares involving her mother, she knows time is precious \u2014 she knows to be grateful for the love she\u2019s felt and the way she\u2019s been lifted up by her community, including her cheer team at Western.<\/span><\/p>\n Rylie Cader is many things: a fiance, a daughter and excited for the future.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Contact the author at howlnews@wou.edu<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1094,"featured_media":20624,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20623","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"modified_by":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1094"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20623"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20624"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20623"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20623"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/westernhowl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20623"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}