{"id":2164,"date":"2019-11-26T15:46:01","date_gmt":"2019-11-26T23:46:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/?page_id=2164"},"modified":"2019-11-26T15:46:01","modified_gmt":"2019-11-26T23:46:01","slug":"how-to-respond-support","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/departments\/medical-services\/sexual-assault-education-and-resources\/how-to-respond-support\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Respond\/Support"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"text-align: center\">When someone discloses to you that they have been sexually assaulted, it is important to provide a positive social reaction to prevent causing any further trauma.<\/h3>\n<table style=\"border-collapse: collapse;width: 100%;height: 268px\">\n<tbody>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\"><strong>Say This:<\/strong><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\"><strong>Not This:<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 52px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 52px;text-align: center\">I am so sorry this happened to you.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 52px;text-align: center\">You should be over this by now.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">Thank you for telling me.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">I don&#8217;t believe you.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">It took a lot of courage to share this with me.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">Prove it.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">This must be really tough for you.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">Why don&#8217;t you remember everything that happened?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">It is not your fault.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">What were you wearing?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">You did not do anything to deserve this.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">Why didn&#8217;t you say no?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">You are not alone.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">You really need to report this to the police.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">I care about you.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">You really need counseling.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"height: 24px\">\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">I am here to listen or help in anyway that I can.<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%;height: 24px;text-align: center\">Why did you or didn&#8217;t you (invite him over so late, fight back, call the police, etc.)?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When someone discloses to you that they have been sexually assaulted, it is important to provide a positive social reaction to prevent causing any further trauma. Say This: Not This: I am so sorry this happened to you. You should be over this by now. Thank you for telling me. I don&#8217;t believe you. It [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":518,"featured_media":0,"parent":2160,"menu_order":2,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"class_list":["post-2164","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2164","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/518"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2164"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2164\/revisions"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wou.edu\/health\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}